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Almost Adulting with Violet Benson

The Science of Anger: How To Move Past Resentment w/ Radhi Devlukia

Oct 19, 2023
01:15:52

Besties! Buckle up, because today we're diving into all things love, personal growth, and relationships with Radhi Devlukia. Radhi is an influencer who shares recipes with her followers on social media and on her website.

Radhi gets candid about her journey from being a Daddy's girl to discovering wisdom in the Bhagavad Gita. Together with Violetta, she shares some of the best advice her dad ever gave her and takes you on a heartfelt exploration of holding onto anger and resentment. Let's uncover what it feels like to push boundaries on cultural expectations for women and explore the complexities of personal journeys in the shadow of successful partners.

And if that's not enough, we're digging into what makes a partnership thrive, how to handle conflict as a couple, and the fine balance between prioritizing your relationship and nurturing your individual growth. Radhi also talks about the fear of failure, the origins of feeling not good enough, and finding those beautiful connections with others. It's a rollercoaster of love, self-discovery, and embracing life at your own pace.   


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What to Listen For:

  • 00:00 Intro
  • 01:13 Grateful for the loving people around you
  • 02:45 Something most people don’t know about you
  • 04:40 We forget to ask people how they are doing
  • 06:06 Sustaining a positive attitude
  • 08:41 Growing up, I was a Daddy’s girl
  • 10:20 The Bhagavad Gita
  • 12:13 Best advice from your dad
  • 15:25 Holding onto resentment
  • 17:41 Have you struggled to let go of anger and resentment?
  • 20:26 When you feel invisible
  • 24:09 Pushing the boundaries on cultural expectations for women
  • 30:17 Figuring out your own journey when you have a successful partner
  • 32:37 Having a supportive partner
  • 35:58 We all function in our own pace in life 
  • 39:34 Do you have the fear of failure?
  • 41:18 Where does feeling not good enough come from?
  • 47:27 How do you connect better to others?
  • 50:28 What's your definition of love? 
  • 54:30 Least favorite thing about yourself
  • 56:17 How Radhi saw Jay at the beginning of their relationship
  • 58:56 How do you handle conflict as a couple?
  • 01:02:39 Difference between putting something first and feeling neglected
  • 01:06:47 How do you make your relationship a priority?
  • 01:09:45 Take time alone to figure yourself out 


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