Savage Lovecast

Savage Lovecast Episode 992

Nov 4, 2025
A woman grapples with her bisexual husband's evolving desires, primarily wanting her to embody a more masculine persona. Meanwhile, someone questions if straight leather daddies can truly escape misogyny in their dynamics. A conversation also unfolds about maintaining friendships with exes, unearthing the myths surrounding it. Plus, a newly out femme lesbian debates whether her long, beautiful nails might complicate her dating life. Humor and insight blend seamlessly throughout the chat!
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INSIGHT

Attraction To The Activity, Not The Person

  • BDSM play can create a 'third person' — the activity — that people are attracted to rather than the partner.
  • That dynamic lets people enjoy kink even without physical attraction to their play partner.
ADVICE

Set Clear Kink Boundaries

  • Be explicit about what kink you want and what you will not do when playing with a dom.
  • Set boundaries like no penetrative sex, no kissing, or specific activities before playing.
ADVICE

Check Hormones And Build Familiarity

  • Get your hormone levels checked and consult a doctor if orgasm changes coincide with age or perimenopause signs.
  • Also allow time and seek a regular partner who learns your body to restore orgasm intensity.
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