#308: Mastering the Art of Seduction with Robert Greene
Sep 4, 2023
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Robert Greene, author of bestselling books including The 48 Laws of Power and The Art of Seduction, shares insights on power, seduction, and living a fulfilling life. He discusses the inspirations behind his books, the importance of acknowledging our dark side, the art of seduction beyond relationships, and tips on mastering our field. The podcast explores the impact of the internet on seduction and emphasizes the significance of embracing the present moment and building good connections for a fulfilling life.
Maintaining strong social skills and prioritizing real-life interactions is crucial in today's digital age.
Robert Greene's journey as a writer and his famous book, 'The 48 Laws of Power,' exploring power dynamics.
The art of seduction extends beyond romantic relationships and mastering it is a critical skill in society.
Deep dives
The Importance of Social Skills and the Dangers of Technology
Being good with people and having strong social skills is crucial, but technology is causing these skills to degrade. The excessive use of phones and computers disconnects us from real-life interactions and hampers our ability to listen and reflect. The podcast explores the need to prioritize social skills and maintain healthy relationships in today's digital age.
Robert Green's Journey to Becoming a Writer and the Genesis of 'The 48 Laws of Power'
Robert Green shares his journey as a writer, encompassing different job experiences and his passion for words and languages. He recounts how a serendipitous encounter in Italy led to the development of his famous book, 'The 48 Laws of Power,' which explores politicking and power dynamics in various environments.
The Resistance and Perception of 'The 48 Laws of Power'
Robert Green discusses the initial resistance encountered with 'The 48 Laws of Power,' which delves into manipulative tactics and power dynamics. He acknowledges the book's wicked reputation but highlights its realistic portrayal of how people operate in the real world. The podcast explores the opposition faced from mainstream media and the importance of understanding the dark side within ourselves.
The Art of Seduction and Its Relevance in Modern Times
Robert Green explains that the art of seduction extends beyond romantic relationships and encompasses various forms of influence. He discusses the differences in seducing men and women and highlights the power of language, personalization, and entering the spirit of the other person. Green emphasizes the importance of mastering the art of seduction as a critical skill in today's society.
The Importance of Fulfillment in Work and Career
One of the main ideas emphasized in the podcast is the significance of finding fulfillment in one's work and career. While relationships and family are important, the speaker argues that humans are wired to create and make things, and that fulfilling this purpose is powerful and empowering. It is suggested that having a sense of purpose and working towards achieving something meaningful gives individuals a greater sense of satisfaction and fulfillment in life.
The Power of Self-Awareness and Confronting Inadequacies
Another key point discussed in the podcast is the importance of self-awareness and the willingness to confront one's inadequacies. The speaker argues that understanding oneself and acknowledging personal areas for growth is crucial for personal development. By being aware of one's own thoughts, emotions, and patterns of thinking, individuals can identify their weaknesses and work towards improving them. It is emphasized that pain, failures, and adversity can serve as valuable learning experiences, leading to personal growth and transformation.
How can you attract the life that you want? Let’s find out with today’s guest, Robert Greene! Robert is the author of the New York Times bestsellers, The 48 Laws of Power, The Art of Seduction, The 33 Strategies of War, The 50th Law, Mastery, The Laws of Human Nature, and most recently "The Daily Laws: 366 Meditations on Power, Seduction, Mastery, Strategy, and Human Nature.
In this episode, Robert shares about how he came to write his most influential books including the The Art of Seduction and the 48 Laws of Power, and how the concepts behind power and seduction apply not only to relationships but to life in general. Robert shares some insights on how we use seduction more than we think, the importance of discipline and patience when it comes to mastery, and his top tips on how to live a good and fulfilling life.
Discover:
The inspirations behind some of his bestselling books, The 48 Laws of Power, The Art of Seduction, and Mastery
Becoming aware of our dark side, and how acknowledging and understanding this dark side can actually help us make better choices and understand others better
The art of seduction, not just in relationships, but how to get people to pay attention and be interested in you
How to be a master in our field and be good at something we love doing - how to be patient and not give up when things get tough
How to live a fulfilling life
00:00 Intro
00:53 Robert’s passion for writing
06:44 Why do we fear power?
10:49 “Journalists are very manipulative…”
12:22 Be aware of your dark side
16:59 Writing the ‘Art of Seduction’
22:51 How to be a good seducer?
30:48 Difference in how to seduce men and women
32:24 The Anti-Seducer
35:25 How the internet is influencing the art of seduction
41:37 The power of mastery
47:53 Learn to take criticisms
52:08 Living without smartphones
56:13 The Sublime
1:01:08 How to live a fulfilling life
Links:
Robert’s Website and Books: https://powerseductionandwar.com/
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@RobertGreeneOfficial
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/d
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@robertgreene?lang=en
Twitter: https://twitter.com/RobertGreene
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/48LawsofPowerbook
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