Self-compassion expert Dr. Kristin Neff discusses the importance and types of self-compassion, and how it enriches relationships and life. She explores the concepts of tender and fierce self-compassion and the three components of self-compassion in both forms.
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Self-compassion involves treating ourselves with kindness, concern, and attention like we would show to a friend.
There are two main expressions of self-compassion: tender self-compassion involves unconditional acceptance and healing, while fierce self-compassion involves taking action and setting boundaries.
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The Power of Self-Compassion
Self-compassion involves treating ourselves with the same kindness, concern, and attention that we would show to a friend. It is about cultivating friendliness and support towards ourselves. The two main expressions of self-compassion are the tender and the fierce. The tender form is about giving ourselves unconditional acceptance, like a mother's love and support for a crying child. It involves holding ourselves and our difficult emotions with tenderness, leading to healing and calm. On the other hand, the fierce form of self-compassion is about taking action and advocating for ourselves when necessary. It involves standing up for ourselves, saying no, and setting boundaries.
Practicing Self-Compassion
Practicing self-compassion can involve physical gestures that embody tender or fierce self-compassion. For tender self-compassion, placing both hands over the heart center with warmth and gentleness can bring feelings of kindness and acceptance. For fierce self-compassion, sitting up straight, rolling shoulders back, and adopting an empowered stance can cultivate a sense of powerful energy and clarity. The key is to ask ourselves what we need in the moment and listen to our wisdom to guide the exact steps to take. The speaker recommends her book, 'Fierce Self-Compassion,' and selfcompassion.org for further resources on cultivating self-compassion.
Self-compassion expert and co-founder of the Center for Mindful Self-Compassion Dr. Kristin Neff is guest hosting this week on Radio Headspace. Today she introduces self-compassion, discussing its importance, types, and how it enriches relationships and life.
If you'd like to continue learning about self-compassion, check out Dr. Neff's online Mindful Self-Compassion courses here. All Radio Headspace listeners will receive a 15% discount for upcoming courses with the following code: cmscheadspace. This code is good through September 30, 2024.