

Make the rest fair
Aug 12, 2024
This discussion emphasizes the importance of equitable rest among partners. It highlights the shift from competition over household tasks to collaboration for well-being. The focus is on protecting each other's relaxation time and sharing responsibilities. Ensuring that both partners have autonomy in their downtime is key to fostering a healthier relationship.
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Prioritize Rest, Not Fair Work
- Prioritize fair rest in your shared household, not fair division of labor.
- Focus on ensuring both partners get adequate rest and recreation.
Rest as a Collaborative Goal
- Trying to perfectly divide labor can be a losing battle.
- Shifting focus to shared rest creates a collaborative, not competitive, dynamic.
Define and Protect Rest
- Define rest as fun, recharging time where you have autonomy.
- Rest is not being on-call or doing chores during downtime.