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Shrink For The Shy Guy

The Secret To Staying Motivated In Building Confidence

Jan 8, 2024
Explore the art of maintaining momentum to build confidence. Learn about 'social fitness' and 'emotional fitness' in overcoming anxiety. Challenge genetic determinism and embrace personal choices for growth. Overcome limiting beliefs and practice consistently to build confidence. Discover the power of pain fuel and changing environments. Check out confidence university for practical guidance.
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Quick takeaways

  • Building confidence requires consistent effort and conditioning similar to physical fitness, focusing on sustained momentum rather than short-term inspiration or motivation.
  • Transitioning from relying solely on pain fuel to finding a new fuel source unique to each individual, such as focusing on enjoyable aspects of social interactions and challenging limiting beliefs.

Deep dives

The Importance of Continuous Practice in Overcoming Social Anxiety

Overcoming social anxiety and building confidence is a process that requires continuous practice and conditioning. Just like physical fitness, social fitness and emotional fitness require consistent effort to see progress. It is not enough to be inspired or motivated in the beginning; it is the sustained momentum that leads to confidence. The fulfillment and satisfaction that come from breaking free of limitations are partly due to the time and effort invested in the process. It is crucial to free ourselves from the belief that change is impossible and instead focus on the potential for growth and transformation.

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