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What is second child syndrome, the feeling affecting Prince Harry?

May 6, 2025
Delve into the intriguing concept of second child syndrome and its psychological implications on individuals like Prince Harry. Discover how this phenomenon can shape the dynamics within families and potentially lead to lifelong feelings of inadequacy. Experts discuss how parents can mitigate these effects by fostering individuality in their second-borns. Learn practical tips to create a supportive environment, ensuring that every child feels valued and understood.
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INSIGHT

Nature of Second Child Syndrome

  • Second child syndrome is often seen where the middle child struggles for identity between an idealized older and overprotected younger sibling.
  • This can lead to low self-esteem, jealousy, sibling rivalry, and serious long-term behavioral issues.
INSIGHT

Higher Risk for Second Born Boys

  • Second-born boys are 20-40% more likely to face disciplinary action and criminal justice involvement.
  • This heightened risk indicates significant long-term consequences of second child syndrome.
ADVICE

Preventing Second Child Syndrome

  • Parents should treat each child’s needs individually and avoid overpampering the oldest.
  • Encourage the second child to develop their own identity and support open communication about feelings.
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