Optimal Relationships Daily - Dating, Marriage and Parenting 2546: The Things You Do for Me: How Your Partner’s Investments Make You More Committed by Dr. Samantha Joel of Luvze
Apr 7, 2025
Explore how the emotional and practical investments made by partners can significantly boost commitment levels in relationships. Acts like relocating or daily sacrifices can deepen feelings of gratitude and strengthen bonds. However, there's a cautionary aspect—such investments might lead to staying in chronically unfulfilling relationships. The discussion highlights the powerful impact of perceived effort on commitment, showcasing both the potential rewards and risks for couples.
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Personal Investment and Commitment
- People invest heavily in romantic relationships—time, energy, emotions, possessions, and sacrifices.
- Past research shows that higher investment by one partner correlates with increased commitment from that same partner.
Partner's Investments and Gratitude
- A partner's investments increase the other partner's commitment.
- A highly invested partner is seen as more valuable, increasing the other's commitment.
Experiment on Investment Reflection
- In an experiment, participants who reflected on their partner’s investments showed higher commitment than those reflecting on their own.
- Considering a partner's investment increased gratitude, explaining increased commitment.