New Mindset, Who Dis? 733 - Don't let them make you feel guilty
Sep 8, 2025
Explore the vital lesson of rejecting guilt for others' choices. Discover how to maintain boundaries while being empathetic, and learn to differentiate genuine values from external pressures. Case shares insights on the pitfalls of social comparison and the dangers of selective memory that might paint you as the villain. Plus, find a thoughtful self-check question to ensure your decisions align with your values. This conversation emphasizes the importance of recognizing your worth amidst others' consequences.
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Guilt As A Dodge For Responsibility
- People will try to hand you guilt when their life unravels to dodge responsibility.
- Recognize that their pain is often the direct consequence of their choices, not your failure.
The Unreliable Friend Example
- A friend who misses commitments may act wounded when excluded after repeated letting-downs.
- Their frustration reflects inconsistency, not your wrongdoing.
The Cheating Partner Story
- A partner who cheated may portray themselves as hurt when you leave after betrayal.
- Their pain is the consequence of gambling away trust, not evidence you were heartless.
