Taylor & Tay Lautner: You Can’t Please Everyone

May 28, 2024

Global superstar Taylor Lautner and nurse Tay Lautner share their experiences with fame, body image, mental health, and love. Taylor discusses struggles with fame, body image, and people-pleasing, while Tay opens up about nursing pressures and burnout. Together, they explore the challenges of relationships, societal pressures, emotional awareness, and self-acceptance.

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Introduction

00:00 • 5min

Navigating Fame and Relationships

04:39 • 8min

Navigating Celebrity Encounters and Sponsor Ads

12:51 • 7min

Unexpected Fame and Life Alterations

19:27 • 8min

Reflections on People Pleasing and Seeking Validation with Sponsor Messages

27:37 • 6min

Navigating Societal Pressure

33:16 • 10min

Navigating Emotional Differences in Relationships

43:46 • 5min

Navigating Emotions and Decision-Making in Relationships

48:27 • 17min

Exploring Emotional Awareness and Wisdom

01:05:45 • 4min

Embracing Self-Acceptance and Mental Well-being

01:09:30 • 21min

Taylor & Tay Lautner on BODY SHAMING, Pressures of Global SUPERSTARDOM, & Finding LOVE!

What’s it like to be married to someone with your exact name?? Taylor Lautner and his wife, Tay Lautner, open up in this deeply personal and eye-opening episode of MBB!

From Taylor’s whirlwind journey as a global superstar in the Twilight series where he experienced an unprecedented level of stardom, to Tay’s relentless dedication as a nurse during the pandemic, this couple shares their unique experiences with fame, body image, mental health, and love.

Taylor Lautner gets candid about the negative effects of fame that made it difficult for him to leave his house, why he took a pause from the entertainment industry, dating Taylor Swift, the pressures of being a teenage sex symbol, and overcoming body image issues that haunted him for years. He also opens up about being bullied in school for being an actor, his struggles with people-pleasing and perfectionism, the origins of his optimistic nature and sense of discernment, and his insecurities with fame now.

Tay speaks to the life-and-death pressures of nursing and the obsessive compulsive tendencies she thinks it has instilled in her. She also details her struggles with burnout and boundary-setting and pinpointing her actual wants and needs, and the emotional toll of her loved ones' battles with addiction and bipolar disorder.

Together, they explore the dangers of over-compartmentalizing and not allowing yourself to feel full range of emotions, how they balance their relationship despite having different love languages, and what it means to grow and heal together.

Join the Lautner power couple as we break down their mental health journey, their favorite tools for mental wellness, and the most valuable things they’ve learned doing their own successful mental health podcast, The Squeeze!

Taylor & Tay Lautner's podcast, The Squeeze: https://www.lemonsbytay.com/the-squeeze-podcast