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2226: [Part 1] How to Tell If You're Too Picky With Guys or Settling by Melissa Josue of Melissa The Love Coach on Modern Dating

Jul 1, 2024
11:05
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Melissa Josue, a relationship coach, discusses the dilemma of being too picky or settling in relationships. She highlights the importance of distinguishing wants, needs, and deal-breakers to avoid confusion and frustration. Josue emphasizes clarity in desires for a fulfilling partnership.
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Quick takeaways

  • Distinguishing wants, needs, and deal-breakers prevents settling in relationships.
  • Defining personal standards for qualities like 'good in bed' and 'trustworthy' is crucial.

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Identifying Unmet Needs: Too Picky or Settling

The podcast episode explains how questions of being too picky or settling in relationships often stem from unmet needs. It discusses the significance of having a list of qualities desired in a partner but emphasizes that not all criteria carry equal weight. By discerning between desires, needs, and deal-breakers, individuals can clarify their relationship preferences to avoid settling for less than they truly require.

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