

Dispatches from the living memory of trans people of color
Jun 25, 2025
Caro de Robertis, a talented writer and novelist behind 'So Many Stars,' shares her insights on the rich narratives of trans, non-binary, and Two-Spirit people of color. The conversation highlights the unique challenges they face and the importance of embracing diverse identities. De Robertis discusses the transformative power of language, weaving together themes of resilience and community. Personal stories shed light on the balance of joy and grief in the trans experience, emphasizing the invaluable lessons from queer elders for future generations.
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Complexity Behind "Trans" Identity
- Trans identity is often politicized, blending access to medical care and public spaces with broader legal struggles.
- The term "trans people of color" oversimplifies diverse experiences, masking specific struggles like transmisogyny and classism.
Life and Community Anecdotes
- The "sticky rice gang" of butch Asian women bonded over shared activities like mahjong, building community.
- Jess Kung's late start in drag at age 59 stemmed from a desire to survive long enough to express herself.
Language Shapes Gender Identity
- Language shapes gender identity deeply, especially between English and Spanish's gendered grammar.
- New pronouns and neologisms express gender euphoria and resist traditional conformity, enriching queer language.