#48 Men’s Sexuality, Stigma and Shame (with Tyran Mowbray)
Mar 18, 2021
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Join Tyran Mowbray, a men's sex and health mentor, as he dives into the complexities of masculinity and sexuality. He shares personal stories and challenges the stigma surrounding men discussing their sexual experiences. The conversation highlights the importance of setting boundaries and embracing emotional vulnerability. Tyran also addresses the misconceptions about male victims of sexual assault, advocating for more open and honest discussions in the realm of men's sexuality. Engage with topics that redefine masculinity and promote healing.
Tyran Mowbray emphasizes the importance of merging consciousness and spirituality to help men redefine their masculine identities and relationships.
The podcast addresses the stigma surrounding male sexuality, particularly the misconception that men cannot be victims of sexual assault.
Effective communication and the ability to assert boundaries are critical for healthy sexual dynamics and fostering genuine connections among partners.
Deep dives
Acknowledgment of Cultural Heritage
The episode begins with an acknowledgment of the traditional custodians of the land, specifically the Waddundi and Bububun people from the Wudichup region. This acknowledgment emphasizes the importance of recognizing and respecting Indigenous cultures and their ongoing connection to the land and community. Such recognition is crucial in fostering understanding and appreciation for the history and traditions of native peoples. The host expresses a commitment to honoring this cultural significance throughout the discussion.
Exploring Masculinity and Emotional Health
The conversation delves into the complexities of masculinity, particularly regarding men's sexuality, emotional well-being, and their experiences of pleasure. Tyron Malbray, a men's sex and health mentor, discusses his mission to help men transcend immature versions of masculinity through practical exercises and rituals. His approach merges consciousness, embodiment, and spirituality to facilitate deeper connections with oneself and others. This exploration aims to empower men to embrace a more authentic and fulfilling expression of their sexuality and relationships.
Confronting Uncomfortable Truths
The episode tackles the taboo subject of sexual abuse against men, confronting pervasive misconceptions that men cannot be raped. The conversation emphasizes the importance of acknowledging and discussing men's experiences of sexual assault as a vital part of understanding consent and sexual violence. Tyron highlights that an erection does not equate to consent, and many men may feel pressured into unwanted sexual situations. Addressing these issues fosters a more comprehensive dialogue about consent and the diverse experiences of all individuals.
The Impact of Emotional Wounding
Tyron shares his personal journey of overcoming emotional pain and heartbreak, which led him to seek transformation in his life. He describes how experiences of betrayal and rejection shaped his understanding of relationships and masculinity, driving him towards a path of self-discovery. This emotional wounding is common among men and often manifests in unhealthy patterns of attachment or disconnect from their feelings. By working through these wounds, Tyron aims to help other men break free from cycles of shame and disconnection, allowing for deeper, more meaningful relationships.
The Dynamics of Consent and Communication
The discussion encapsulates the critical role of communication in establishing consent and navigating sexual relationships. Both Tyron and the host emphasize that genuine connections require mutual respect and understanding of each other's boundaries. They propose that healthy sexual dynamics are based on being attuned to one's desires and being comfortable saying 'no' when necessary. By fostering an environment where open dialogue about consent is encouraged, individuals can create safer and more fulfilling sexual experiences for themselves and their partners.
Today on the #mensexpleasure podcast, I chat with Tyran Mowbray. Tyran is a men's sex and health mentor. He specifically works with men around masculinity, relationships and sexuality. He merges consciousness, embodiment and spirituality into easily digestible practical exercises and rituals so that men can bring sacredness and Passion to every area of their lives. He supports men to bring the power of their penetrative force up to their heart and the divinity and love from the heart down to their Phallus, so that they can overcome their unhealthy immature versions of masculinity and step into the men they always knew they were. Tyran and I talk about the challenges of working with men in the realms of sexuality. We also discuss some of the pervasive ideas about men regarding their sexuality.
Key points:
- Tyran shares some of his story
- What men talk about when they get together
- The flaws in taking back your power
- Men in the sexuality space
- “Fellahs, is it gay to talk about having sex with women?”
