The Melissa Ambrosini Show MOMENT 50: The 5 Genius Questions That Will Make You Instantly Likeable | Vanessa Van Edwards
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Jan 2, 2025 
Vanessa Van Edwards, a world-renowned people skills expert, shares insightful tips for mastering small talk and improving relationships. She discusses why some people are naturally likable while others struggle. Learn the science behind genuine connections, the art of asking better questions, and why traditional inquiries like 'What do you do?' can kill a conversation. Vanessa reveals five genius questions that can instantly enhance your likability and cultivate deeper connections in both personal and professional settings.
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Likeability Secret
- Likeability stems from genuine interest in others, not self-promotion.
- Popular individuals focus on liking others, not being liked.
Better Conversation Starters
- Avoid autopilot questions like "What do you do?" or "Where are you from?".
- Instead, ask engaging questions like "What's good?" or "Working on anything exciting recently?"
Conversation Starter Experiment
- A speed networking experiment tested different conversation starters.
- Questions like "What was the highlight of your day?" fostered better connections.