Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage What Sex Really Means - Pt 1
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Dec 8, 2025 
Dr. Juli Slattery, a pioneer in Christian sexuality and founder of Authentic Intimacy, joins the Smalleys to explore the profound meaning behind sex in marriage. They delve into the covenantal symbolism of intimacy, emphasizing that sex reflects God’s love and commitment. The discussion touches on common sexual struggles couples face, the impact of trauma, and practical steps for rebuilding intimacy. Juli also provides insights on fostering healthy communication around sex, addressing shame, and cultivating a shared vision for a fulfilling sexual relationship.
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Sex As Covenant Metaphor
- God created sex and marriage to reveal his covenantal love and character to us.
- Juli Slattery argues sex matters because it functions as an earthly metaphor of God's faithful, covenant love.
Create A Shared Vision For Sex
- Build a shared vision for your sexual relationship grounded in faithfulness, intimacy, sacrifice, and celebration.
- Work toward trust first, growing emotional intimacy, mutual pleasure, and regular celebration of your marital covenant.
Sex’s Bonding Biology
- Sex is designed to bond couples neurochemically through dopamine, oxytocin, and endorphins.
- Juli Slattery warns that lack of sexual connection can become a wedge that increases marital distance.
