Calm Parenting Podcast Do You Need To Grieve The Child (& Childhood) You Didn’t Get? #528
Oct 19, 2025
Explore the world of strong-willed kids and the unique traits they exhibit, like brightness and a penchant for power struggles. Discover how a parent’s temperament can shape the dynamic and escalate conflicts. Learn why healing begins with acceptance and how embracing your child can also unlock your own personal growth. Kirk shares actionable strategies and heartfelt testimonials that highlight the transformative power of parenting. Finally, he emphasizes the importance of enjoying your children and seeking support in this challenging journey.
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Child As A Mirror For Parental Wounds
- Strong-willed children often reflect parents' unresolved childhood wounds and can trigger deep self-examination.
- Accepting the child can catalyze healing and create a deeper parent-child bond.
Why They Argue And Resist
- Strong-willed kids are bright, pattern-seeking, and crave challenge and autonomy.
- Their resistance often stems from immaturity and a need for ownership rather than malice.
Lead Calmly To Prevent Power Struggles
- Calm the situation first and lead your child to a rational place before a power struggle escalates.
- Take responsibility for calming and guiding rather than trying to change the child immediately.