
 Practicing Love: Have the Best Love and Sex of Your Life After 40 #14: How to Stop Being a Nice Guy in Dating and Relationships
 Feb 20, 2025 
 In this discussion, Valdo Lallemand, a relationship coach focused on playfulness and intimacy, unpacks the 'nice guy' syndrome in relationships. He shares insights on how overly selfless behavior can lead to resentment. Listeners learn about the importance of emotional awareness, honesty, and the balance between care and assertiveness. Valdo emphasizes the role of playfulness in fostering joy and deeper connections while navigating the complexities of intimacy and vulnerability for a fulfilling romantic life. 
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 Intro 
 00:00 • 2min 
 Journey to Authentic Intimacy in Relationships 
 01:40 • 2min 
 Embracing Authentic Masculinity for Deeper Intimacy 
 03:14 • 3min 
 The Nice Guy Dilemma 
 06:16 • 5min 
 Navigating Relationship Dynamics 
 11:10 • 14min 
 Creating Intimacy Through Collaboration in Relationships 
 24:58 • 3min 



