Pure Desire Podcast 420 - Foundations of Freedom: Establishing Sobriety
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Jul 22, 2025 In this insightful discussion, Stuart Blade, a seasoned men's group leader at Pure Desire Ministries and former small groups pastor, unpacks the real essence of establishing sobriety. He emphasizes that lasting change goes beyond mere abstinence—it's about cultivating a new identity and life. Stuart shares strategies for navigating early recovery hurdles, building trust, and the delicate balance of grace and discipline. With practical advice and compassionate insights, he encourages listeners to embrace self-compassion and intentional choices on their journey to healing.
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Trust Is Rebuilt By Actions
- Rebuilding trust is earned by consistent action, not just words.
- Honesty is foundational; others often say, 'I trust your actions, not your words.'
Reverse-Engineer Your Relapses
- Investigate your relapse by asking 'What happened before that?' repeatedly to find the real trigger.
- Treat it like a crash-site investigation to uncover upstream causes like exhaustion or conflict.
Arousal Template Is A Personal Floor Plan
- The arousal template maps sensations, contexts, and early memories that drive sexual response.
- Understanding this 'floor plan' reveals nonsexual triggers and hidden patterns.
