Modern Wisdom #420 - Charlie Houpert - How To Build Genuine Charisma And Confidence
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Jan 10, 2022 
Charlie Houpert, Founder of Charisma on Command and a leader in communication skills, shares powerful insights on building genuine charisma and confidence. He discusses the five archetypes of charismatic communication and offers tips to improve small talk and overcome shyness. Charlie reveals unique ways to connect with women attractively while illuminating the role of humor in conversations. He also shares personal anecdotes, including a transformative MDMA experience with his family, blending humor, authenticity, and vulnerability in social interactions.
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Conversation Starters
- Set a higher conversational vibe than needed, be enthusiastic.
- Answer common questions like "Where are you from?" in engaging ways, offering multiple connection points.
Overcoming Shyness
- Overcome shyness by practicing saying one extra sentence in simple interactions.
- Finish sentences strongly without trailing off, taking up space assertively.
Skill Building
- Focus on improving one conversational skill at a time to avoid feeling overwhelmed.
- New conversational habits feel unnatural initially, but repetition builds confidence.
