
Everything Life Coaching: The Positive Psychology and Science Behind Coaching Speak Up, Stand Out: How One Defense Industry Leader Found Her Coaching Voice (ft. Carly)
Feb 6, 2026
A defense industry leader shares how she found her coaching voice after decades in secretive, male-dominated spaces. They explore the dynamics that silence women, why small speaking experiments build lasting confidence, and how coach training reshaped leadership presence. The conversation spotlights coaching as a path to amplify mid-career women aiming for director-level roles.
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A Career Pivot Revealed At Retreat
- Carly spent 25 years in the defense industry excelling technically but freezing when talking about herself and career pivots.
- A Lumia retreat created a safe space where she found words to describe who she wants to help and why.
Silence Is Cultural, Not Personal
- Heavily male-dominated cultures can train women to self-censor and stay invisible despite competence.
- Carly wants to coach mid-career women to break through those barriers using her lived experience.
Windowless Rooms Shape Behavior
- Carly described working long days in windowless rooms with no cell phones and secretive environments shaping employees' behaviors.
- She said that human connection gets stifled and people become 'kept secret and stuck' by their jobs.
