S11: Mini Man-sode 39: What You Should Pray for Your Future Spouse with Scott Kedersha
Nov 17, 2023
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Relationship expert and author Scott Kedersha discusses the importance of praying for a future spouse and the significance of finding someone who will help them grow spiritually and glorify God. They also mention a book called 'Ready or Not' that is a guide for couples to have important conversations before marriage.
Praying together as a couple strengthens the relationship and fosters reliance on God's guidance and will.
Singles should pray for personal growth, character development, and contentment in their current season while seeking wisdom from a supportive community.
Deep dives
The Importance of Praying in Relationships
Praying together is a key practice for couples to strengthen their relationship. It is essential to pray individually and as a couple to become closer to God and each other. The act of praying helps to develop trust and reliance on God, rather than solely relying on our own desires and plans. By praying together, couples can align themselves with God's will and seek His guidance for their relationship.
Specific Prayers for Singles
Singles should focus their prayers on becoming the person that their future spouse is looking for. Praying for personal growth, character development, and spiritual maturity are crucial. Additionally, it is important to pray for contentment in one's current season of life, whether single or married. Trusting God's plan and seeking His will in all aspects of life, including relationships, should be a central focus of prayers.
The Role of Community in Relationships
Having community support is essential in evaluating and navigating relationships. Seeking wisdom from trusted friends, mentors, pastors, or counselors can help singles and couples make informed decisions. Community provides accountability, encouragement, and different perspectives that can help individuals grow and discern God's direction for their relationships. It is important to surround oneself with people who are willing to challenge, affirm, and support through every stage of a relationship.
The Ready or Not Prayer Guide for Couples
The Ready or Not Prayer Guide is a resource specifically designed for dating and engaged couples. It offers 100 prayers to help couples become more like Jesus and shape their relationships around Christ-like attributes. The prayers cover a range of topics, such as humility, trust, communication, and purity. This guide encourages couples to pray together, seek God's guidance, and prioritize their relationship with Him in order to build a strong and Christ-centered foundation for their future marriage.
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