Lisa Bilyeu shares Why Being a “Nice Girl” Is Ruining Your Life - And How to Stop It! (Replay)

Jan 10, 2025

01:42:52

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There is something called the nice girl syndrome which is an idea and expectation that you have to be nice to be loved and accepted. It leaves the mark of not feeling good enough. Being pleasant, agreeable, and accommodating doesn’t mean that you have to make yourself less than someone else.

“Becoming and remaining a nice girl, is a kind of malnutrition to the soul of a woman.” -Asia Suler

What happens to you when you’re always put last on your own list or lucky if you even make your own list? In this episode Lisa is channeling all of her badass energy into exposing how you can be nice and prioritize yourself and communicate your needs. You don’t have to be afraid of speaking up and worried about being rejected or thought less than by the right people in your life.

Do a gut check with yourself on which one of these myths hit the hardest and come up with a plan to restore your power and balance where there is none.

SHOW NOTES:

0:00 | Introduction to Nice Girl Myths

0:12 | #1 Nice Girls Aren’t Needy

8:15 | #2 Nice Girls Listen to Their Parents

21:12 | #3 Nice Girls Aren’t Rude

25:14 | #4 Nice Girls Don’t Push Back

31:02 | #5 Nice Girls Don’t Swear

31:16 | #6 Nice Girls Don’t Rattle Cages

39:12 | #7 Nice Girls Are Not Confrontational

47:11 | #8 Nice Girls Take Their Friends’ Advice

52:05 | #9 Nice Girls Don’t Show Their Emotions

1:02:46 | #10 Nice Girls Don’t Disagree