Good Inside with Dr. Becky Let’s Talk Bullying With Dr. Sheryl Ziegler
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Oct 21, 2025 In this engaging discussion, Dr. Sheryl Ziegler, a clinical psychologist and bullying expert, sheds light on the nuances between bullying and mere meanness. She emphasizes the influence of parents’ past experiences on their reactions to their children’s struggles. The conversation also explores the peak of bullying in middle school, the impact of social media, and practical strategies for parents. Dr. Ziegler offers valuable insights on how to respond when kids feel left out, encouraging a shift from a 'fix it' mentality to fostering connection.
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Bullying Vs. Mean Kid Behavior
- Bullying differs from mean kid behavior by repetition, intent, and power dynamics.
- Clarify whether actions are repeated and meant to make the child feel smaller before labeling it bullying.
Parents' Old Wounds Drive Reactions
- Parents' own childhood wounds often drive intense reactions to their child's peer hurts.
- Notice your triggers to avoid reacting from your past instead of responding to your child's needs.
Parents Revert To Their Child Self
- Parents often emotionally revert to their child-self when told about peer harm, reacting like a 10-year-old.
- Dr. Ziegler notices tears in adults as they re-experience unprocessed pain while protecting their kids.