Respectful Parenting: Janet Lansbury Unruffled Struggling with a Strong-Willed Toddler's Tantrums
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May 13, 2025 A single mother grapples with her strong-willed toddler's tantrums and seeks effective strategies for calmer mornings. The conversation highlights the emotional toll of meltdowns and the importance of self-acceptance for parents. With insights into navigating public outbursts, the discussion emphasizes the need for understanding and connection between parent and child. The speakers share personal experiences and advice on fostering emotional security while encouraging independence, ultimately advocating for a relaxed parenting style.
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Mom's Toddler Tantrum Story
- The mother describes her 2.5-year-old as strong-willed and loving but prone to intense tantrums when denied desires.
- These tantrums happen daily, lasting sometimes nearly 47 minutes, causing significant morning stress.
Self-Regulation Isn't Our Job
- Trying to teach a toddler to regulate emotions while also regulating your own is an impossible, overwhelming job.
- Children mostly learn self-regulation by modeling their parents' emotional regulation, not by direct teaching.
Let Tantrums Burn Out
- Giving a toddler space to express tantrums without engagement allows them to fully release their feelings.
- Avoid putting your energy into fixing tantrums; nonverbal positive feedback works better.