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068 - A Mindset Shift to Make Your Life Easier

Aug 26, 2024
Brad, author of 'Master of Change,' emphasizes the power of a flexible mindset over a rigid identity. He explains the crucial shift from a 'having' orientation to a 'being' orientation, which fosters resilience and personal growth. Brad shares inspiring stories, including one about an Iron Man champion who redefined her identity. He also delves into identifying core values by reflecting on admired figures and envisioning one's eulogy, stressing that true fulfillment comes from embracing adaptability and prioritizing intrinsic qualities.
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  • Embracing a being orientation over a having orientation fosters resilience by allowing individuals to define themselves through intrinsic qualities rather than external achievements.
  • Adopting a being mindset enhances flexibility in identity, enabling easier adaptation during life transitions, as illustrated by personal stories shared in the podcast.

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The Difference Between Having and Being

The distinction between having and being is explained as two fundamental orientations that shape our identity. A having orientation focuses on external possessions and achievements, leading to fragility as these can be lost or taken away. In contrast, a being orientation emphasizes intrinsic qualities and values, allowing individuals to define themselves through who they are rather than what they own. This perspective fosters resilience, as one’s core attributes remain intact regardless of changing circumstances.

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