Foreplay Radio – Couples and Sex Therapy Foreplay Replay - Dividing Chores for Better Sex
Aug 25, 2025
Discover how dividing household chores can spice up relationships! The discussion sheds light on traditional family roles and their surprising effect on sexual frequency. Learn why equitable sharing of responsibilities enhances attraction and intimacy. Plus, gain practical tips on communication and teamwork to strengthen your partnership. Explore how addressing chores and finances openly can lead to a happier home life, ultimately boosting your romantic connection. Tune in for insights that could transform your relationship dynamics!
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Shared Load Boosts Attraction
- The original study linking traditional gender roles to higher sexual frequency was based on old data and misinterpreted.
- Sharing household and childcare responsibilities in modern dual-career families increases attraction and sexual satisfaction.
Resentment From Unfair Chore Split
- Perceived unfair division of chores creates resentment that reduces sexual desire.
- Each partner often views themselves as the hero of their own story, making perspective-taking crucial.
Celebrate Small Chore Wins
- Laurie and her husband celebrate chore wins by showing each other completed tasks like a clean toilet or a mowed lawn.
- They use that mini-celebration as motivation and positive recognition.
