#61 Clit Talk: Conversations About Sex and Relationships (with Lindsey, Katie and Sugar)

For the first time on #mensexandpleasure, to kick off season 5, I interview multiple guests. In this episode, I chat with the women from the Clit Talk podcast: Lindsey, Katie and Sugar. Their podcast is all about living a pleasure positive lifestyle. Lindsey, Katie and Sugar have spent the last 150+ episodes interviewing everyone from doctors, sexperts, celebrities and even porn stars. They go out, try all the boundary-pushing sexcapades, confronting and disrupting their shame, then hop on the air to tell all the gritty details. They will try almost anything once. Lindsey is a quick-witted, ball-busting songstress who throughout the show opens herself up to exploring the Kinsey scale, what monogamy means for her and showing up as a woman committed to pleasure whether she is in a relationship or not. Katie is a nurse and life-long Catholic monogamer. Before being on the Clit Talk podcast, she never masturbated, sex hurt and her marriage was suffering from her crippling repression. Now, she’s a new mum, talks about doing it in the butt and is still very much monogamous. Sugar - hilarious and daring - opened her marriage to a committed non-monogamous relationship at the ripe age of 25. She went on to become a leader in the polyamory community and reportedly throws a damn good play party. She shares about all this… unabashedly. In this episode we have a lively discussion about about sex and relationships.

Key Points:

• Lindsey, Katie and Sugar share the origin story of Clit Talk
  
• Competition vs collaboration
  
• Polyamory, jealousy and compersion
  
• You can’t fulfill all your partner’s needs
  
• What is a pleasure-positive lifestyle?
  
• Pleasure practices and advice
  
• How can women get their men to open up?
  
• Stop coaching your partner
  
• An unfiltered look inside women’s minds
  

Relevant links:

Clit Talk’s Instagram: @clittalkshow

Katie’s Instagram: @imkatieroberts

Lindsey’s Instagram: @linsta_grammy

Sugar’s Instagram: @sugar.sloane