Growth Mindset Psychology: The Science of Self-Improvement Leaving a Legacy: What do we actually get remembered for - Lessons on family and life - [Storied Recipe]
Dec 19, 2025
Becky Hadid, host of The Storied Recipe, dives into a heartfelt narrative about her nan's pineapple upside-down cake—a symbol of love and consistency. She shares how this sweet ritual eased her food anxieties and created enduring connections. The discussion contrasts nurturing approaches with rigid control in childhood, showcasing the importance of consistent support. Becky reflects on her nan’s resilience as a blind baker and entrepreneur, highlighting how creativity fosters community, leaving a legacy that moves beyond mere recipes.
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Pineapple Cake As A Personal Ritual
- Sam Webster Harris recounts that his nan made him a pineapple coconut upside-down cake every visit for over a decade because he was a fussy eater.
- She persisted even after others grew bored, making the cake purely to meet his specific need and make him feel seen.
School Force-Feeding Trauma
- Sam describes traumatic school practices where children were forced to eat until they vomited.
- That experience created aversion to school meals and taught him adults sometimes act incompetently rather than helpfully.
Control Breeds Mistrust, Not Strength
- The forced-feeding taught Sam mistrust of arbitrary authority rather than resilience the school intended.
- He learned to question adults who claim expertise but use counterproductive methods.