The Art of Manliness #448: Your Son Isn’t Lazy — How to Empower Boys to Succeed [RE-BROADCAST]
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Nov 25, 2020 Adam Price, a child psychologist and author of "He's Not Lazy," discusses teenage boys' struggles with motivation. He argues that many young men feel overwhelmed by pressure and fear of failure, rather than being truly lazy. Price emphasizes that nagging can worsen these issues, and instead, parents should grant boys more autonomy. He advocates for open communication and support, allowing boys to face natural consequences, which fosters accountability and resilience. This insightful conversation reshapes how we view engagement in teenage boys.
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Unmotivated Boys
- Boys who seem unmotivated in school often feel intense pressure to succeed.
- They avoid schoolwork due to fear of failure, not laziness.
Avoid "Underachiever" Label
- Recognize that boys develop at different rates; some are late bloomers.
- Avoid labeling them as underachievers, as this can be detrimental.
Over-Parenting Backfires
- Nagging, over-parenting, and constant monitoring increase boys' avoidance.
- This creates a power struggle and prevents them from learning to handle setbacks.
