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2162: Why People Are Rude and Unkind (and Why It’s Not About You) by Avery Rogers with Tiny Buddha

May 6, 2024
11:25
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Avery Rogers explores the connection between inner emotions and rude behavior, emphasizing personal struggles over malice. Understanding insecurities leads to compassionate interactions, shedding light on human behavior and self-perception.
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  • Unkind behavior often stems from personal struggles rather than malice, highlighting the profound connection between inner emotions and treatment of others.
  • Being unkind is often a defense mechanism to protect oneself from feelings of unworthiness and self-doubt, emphasizing the importance of self-reflection and self-compassion for transitioning towards kindness.

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Recognizing Reflection of Inner Feelings in Behavior

The podcast episode discusses how people's behavior towards others is a reflection of their own feelings about themselves. The author shares personal experiences of transitioning from being kind and gentle to rude and unkind due to underlying sadness and self-criticism. It is highlighted that when individuals are unkind or rude, it often stems from coping mechanisms related to their own insecurities.

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