

Letting go of the need to do it all, by Meredith Goldstein
Jun 24, 2025
Meredith Goldstein, the writer behind the Boston Globe's Love Letters column, shares her journey from viewing relationships with skepticism to embracing the present moment. She reflects on the challenges of ambition during her youth and how the pandemic inspired her to appreciate simplicity. Goldstein discusses the joy found in daily routines, the balance between personal fulfillment and connection, and the transformative power of mindfulness. Her insights remind us of the beauty that lies in slowing down and savoring each experience.
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Teen Meredith's Busyness Pressure
- Meredith felt pressured to do everything and be part of all activities, despite disliking some like lacrosse.
- She associated success with how much she could pack into a day, envying the endless time of vampires.
Meredith's Mom's Limited Routine
- Meredith observed her mom's routine life filled with work and isolation after divorce.
- She admired her mom but feared becoming stuck in a similarly limited life.
Meredith's Conflict on Success and Dating
- Meredith juggled a demanding internship and mentally pushed herself to do even more.
- She distrusted dating and relationships due to her mom’s fractured marriage experience.