The Psychology of your 20s
101. The psychology of ghosting
Jun 23, 2023
Ghosting in modern dating is on the rise, fueled by dating apps and social media's anonymity. It often leaves individuals craving closure and facing feelings of rejection. The podcast delves into psychological motivations, exploring traits like narcissism and emotional unavailability that lead to ghosting. People-pleasing and fear of confrontation also play significant roles. Listeners will learn constructive coping strategies to navigate the emotional fallout and reclaim their self-respect.
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- Ghosting is more about the emotional unavailability and lack of empathy of the person doing the ghosting, rather than any fault of our own.
- Emotionally unavailable individuals, those with low emotional intelligence, and individuals with undesirable traits such as narcissism, Machiavellianism, and psychopathy have been linked to ghosting behavior.
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Why Ghosting Has Become So Common in Our 20s
Ghosting, the act of cutting off all communication without explanation, has become a universal experience in our 20s. The rise of technology and online dating platforms has contributed to this trend, making it easier for people to disconnect without offering any closure. Ghosting can have a detrimental impact on our sense of self-worth and self-esteem, as we tend to blame ourselves for the abrupt end of a relationship. However, it's important to recognize that ghosting is more about the emotional unavailability and lack of empathy of the person doing the ghosting, rather than any fault of our own.
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