Modern Wisdom #699 - Justin Mogilski - Will Non-Monogamy Fix The Dating Market?
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Oct 28, 2023 Justin Mogilski, an evolutionary psychologist at the University of South Carolina, dives into the world of consensual non-monogamous relationships. He discusses how one in five people are open to exploring non-monogamy and the evolving societal acceptance of these dynamics. Topics include how jealousy plays a role, differences in male and female preferences, and what makes non-monogamous setups successful. Mogilski also addresses the emotional challenges and the importance of communication in navigating love with multiple partners.
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CNM Beyond Sex
- CNM is often wrongly viewed as solely about sex.
- Some individuals, like Scott Alexander, engage in CNM for emotional connections, not sex.
Popular CNM Setups
- Open relationships are the most common CNM type due to their broad definition.
- Polyamorous relationships may be more numerous, emphasizing emotional attachment alongside sex.
Exclusivity Agreements
- Establish clear exclusivity agreements at the beginning of any relationship, CNM or not.
- Revisit these agreements over time, as needs and desires can evolve.