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#699 - Justin Mogilski - Will Non-Monogamy Fix The Dating Market?

Oct 28, 2023
01:19:14
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Evolutionary psychologist Justin Mogilski discusses consensual non-monogamous relationships, addressing predictors of relationship satisfaction, societal condemnation, and managing sexual jealousy. The podcast explores the surge in popularity of non-monogamy, sex differences in motives, personality profiles of non-monogamous individuals, and the impact of non-monogamy on relationships. It also touches on the potential link between intelligence and preference for non-monogamous relationships, as well as the societal implications of widespread acceptance of non-monogamy.
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Quick takeaways

  • Consensual non-monogamy is becoming increasingly popular, with LGBTQ+ individuals and those with an unrestricted socio-sexuality more likely to engage in these relationships.
  • Effective strategies for maintaining non-monogamous relationships include explicit exclusivity agreements, managing sexual jealousy, and adopting non-hierarchical structures.

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The Rise of Consensual Non-Monogamy

Consensual non-monogamy, such as polyamory and open relationships, is becoming increasingly popular, with statistics showing that around one in five people are willing to try it. This shift can be attributed to the rise of individualistic societies and the increased opportunities for personal fulfillment. Notably, LGBTQ+ individuals and those with an unrestricted socio-sexuality are more likely to engage in non-monogamous relationships. Openness to experience is a significant personality trait among individuals in consensual non-monogamy. Effective strategies for maintaining these relationships include explicit exclusivity agreements, attraction disclosure, managing sexual jealousy, reframing comparisons, adopting non-hierarchical structures, practicing sexual health maintenance, and including partners in sexual experiences. Communication is key to navigating jealousy and creating a fulfilling relationship dynamic. Effective management strategies can help individuals reconcile their emotions and create successful non-monogamous relationships.

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