The Examined Life

What if your job actually kills you? [Lou Marchetti]

Feb 20, 2025

Lou Marchetti, a former private equity dealmaker, shares his gripping story after a near-fatal heart attack during a workout. He reveals how this life-altering moment spurred his shift from relentless ambition to a more conscious existence. Lou delves into the emotional turmoil following his job loss, emphasizing the significance of reflection in navigating life’s challenges. He recounts his recovery journey, along with lessons on resilience and the transformative power of self-discovery, ultimately urging listeners to prioritize health and fulfillment over mere success.

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Quick takeaways

Lou Marchetti's heart attack during a workout served as a pivotal moment, prompting a deep reflection on the stress of his previous career in private equity.

The transformation from a life of relentless achievement to one of conscious living was significantly influenced by personal relationships and emotional maturity.

Facing job loss two and a half years later acted as a catalyst for self-discovery, encouraging Marchetti to explore authentic connections and societal impact.

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The Near-Death Experience

A significant incident in the speaker's life occurred during a workout when he unexpectedly collapsed from a cardiac arrest at the age of 41. Despite being in excellent health and physical condition, he went into ventricular tachycardia, which has a survival rate of only 7-10%. Fortunately, two individuals present in the gym acted quickly, using an AED and performing CPR, which kept him alive until emergency services arrived. This experience was pivotal as he shared that, while he does not have clear recollections from that day, it became a defining moment that reshaped his perspective on life.

Intro

2min

A Life-Threatening Collapse: The Journey from Fitness to Crisis

4min

A Turning Point: Love, Commitment, and Life-Altering Events

2min

Resilience and Recovery

10min

From Law to Private Equity: A Journey of Self-Discovery

19min

Navigating Job Loss and Self-Discovery

27min

Navigating Transitions and Self-Discovery

10min

Is your drive for success killing you? Lou Marchetti was a private equity Master of the Universe until he dropped dead during a CrossFit workout. (Yes, he had a heart attack.) Despite this wake-up call, it took getting fired two years later to finally confront the deeper void his relentless achievement was trying to fill, leading him on a journey from compulsive doing to conscious being. [Episode 90]

Learn more about Lou:

• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/louis-marchetti-b513612/

References from the show:

• Living the Questions: https://ltq.kit.com/48ef4c404a

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