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Optimal Relationships Daily - Dating, Marriage & Parenting
2371: A Flirter’s Dilemma: Subtlety vs. Success by Dr. Gary Lewandowski of Luvze on Dating Advice & Communication Skills
Nov 5, 2024
10:46
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Flirting can be a delicate dance, balancing subtlety with the desire for success. Research shows that clear, direct signals are more effective than ambiguous attempts, which often leave intentions misinterpreted. Self-esteem plays a role in how individuals approach flirting, with men and women navigating these dynamics differently. Embracing direct communication not only boosts confidence but also fosters genuine connections, transforming vulnerability into a strength in the dating world.
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- Flirting motivations differ across genders, with men seeking physical intimacy and women often pursuing fun or closeness.
- Direct flirting methods are more effective than subtle approaches, as clear communication enhances the likelihood of successful romantic interactions.
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Flirting Motivations and Gender Differences
Flirting serves various purposes and is influenced by individual motivations, which tend to differ by gender. For men, flirting is often driven by a desire for physical intimacy, while women may engage in flirting primarily for fun or to foster closeness. This divergence in motivation reflects broader social and relational dynamics, where men typically pursue more direct advances, while women may opt for more subtle interactions. Self-esteem plays a significant role as well, impacting how assertively either gender approaches flirting depending on the perceived risk of rejection.
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