PsycHacks Episode 368: Understanding frame (are you living in her world, or is she living in yours?)
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Oct 16, 2023 The podcast explores the concept of frame in relationships, discussing how men often find themselves in the woman's frame. It emphasizes the importance of men considering their own desires and having a clear vision in relationships. The hosts delve into the concept of authentic desire and the significance of tailoring one's life accordingly. They also mention the benefits of becoming a channel member.
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Man Lost in Woman's Frame
- A 30-year-old man was pressured by his long-distance partner to move and start a family.
- He was fully embedded in the woman's frame, negotiating for minimal personal time, unaware of his loss of control.
Find Your Authentic Desires
- Ignore what the woman wants momentarily and ask yourself what you truly want.
- Many men have never asked this and lack an authentic desire outside of others' influences.
Woman's Frame Demands Explained
- Women often demand men adapt to their world with minimal regard for his preferences.
- This captures a woman's unilateral action driven by her reproductive timeline and social environment.