Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships 535 - How Do You Maintain Equity Across Multiple Relationships? Listener Q&A
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Jun 24, 2025 Explore the emotional intricacies of maintaining equity in polyamorous relationships. The hosts discuss the importance of open communication to address financial disparities and feelings of inadequacy. Creative solutions for strengthening long-distance bonds are shared, including unique activities to foster connection. Personal stories highlight the challenges of jealousy and competition among partners, emphasizing empathy and understanding. Tune in for insightful tips on navigating complex dynamics while prioritizing all partners' needs.
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Avoid Money as Numbers Game
- Avoid framing conversations about money as a numbers game with your partner.
- Focus on emotional needs and fairness within your relationship instead of dollar comparisons.
Focus on Feelings, Not Dollars
- Address feelings underneath financial concerns rather than actual spending.
- Collaborate on equitable ways to share time, energy, and resources beyond money.
Collaborate on Time Together
- Agree on a shared goal to spend more time together first.
- Brainstorm creative, small experiments within your constraints to increase connection.