Foreplay Radio – Couples and Sex Therapy Foreplay Replay - Laurie's Story
Sep 22, 2025
Laurie shares her transformative journey to becoming a sex therapist, revealing her pivotal moment of change in her marriage. She discusses the impact of childhood trauma and unrealistic expectations on relationships. Laurie highlights her commitment to breaking negative patterns and fostering secure attachments. Through therapy, she aims to alter her family's legacy, ensuring a healthier future. Her heartfelt message inspires others to embrace change and improve their own relationships.
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Childhood Roots Of Relationship Longing
- Lori learned about sex early from her mother and idealized marriage as a child.
- Her family life was chaotic with a drunk, traumatized father and a loving grandfather who saved her psychologically.
From Pining To Marriage
- Lori describes becoming a classic pursuer who pined for boys who didn't notice her.
- She eventually pursued and married the man she idealized after repeated attempts and some awkward moments.
Early Marriage Patterns And Sexual Mismatch
- Early marriage revealed clash: Lori pursued more while Derek withdrew and studied away from home.
- Their sexual initiation mismatches and weekend travel created a repeating cycle of distance and anger.
