Kerri Baillie, a member of the Solo community, talks about her transition to Solo and the importance of validation and support. They discuss embracing singleness and expressing individuality, rejecting conventional norms, the impact of libraries, mastering the art of 'peopleing', developing confidence, the benefits of deadlifting, and the progress and surprises of a 10-year Solo project.
Finding validation and community in the solo lifestyle helps to navigate societal pressures and live life on one's own terms.
Embracing authenticity and individuality, despite societal expectations, allows for personal fulfillment and happiness in the solo life.
Deep dives
Validation and Community in Living Solo
Carrie Bailey, a lifelong solo, discusses the importance of finding validation and community in a society that often expects people to be married and have children. She shares how discovering the solo community has given her a sense of belonging and validation, allowing her to embrace her solo lifestyle and live life on her own terms.
Embracing Authenticity and Defying Expectations
Carrie talks about the importance of being true to oneself and embracing authenticity, even in the face of negative opinions and societal expectations. She shares how she expresses her individuality through her appearance, such as brightly colored tattoos and hair dye, and how she prioritizes pleasing herself rather than conforming to societal norms.
The Journey of Self-Discovery and Reinvention
Carrie reflects on her journey of self-discovery and reinvention throughout her solo life, highlighting key moments when she embraced her true desires and made choices that aligned with her authentic self. She shares how she navigated relationships and dating, ultimately realizing that being solo was the right path for her.
Living a Remarkable Life as a Librarian
Carrie discusses her fulfilling career as a librarian and how it has shaped her perspective on life. She emphasizes the importance of being present with people, maintaining professionalism, and treating others with courtesy and respect. Carrie also shares how her hobbies, like dancing and martial arts, have added richness to her life as a solo single person.
Peter McGraw talks to Kerri Baillie, a member of the Solo community, about her transition from single to Solo. Join the community at https://petermcgraw.org/solo/