005: Guys Gone Deep: M on Compersion, Staying Hard and DP

Guys Gone Deep is a regular series of Girls Gone Deep, in which Elle and Vee pick the brains of men in the lifestyle to get the male perspective.  In this episode, the girls go deep with Elle’s husband, M, and nothing is off limits! Their conversation covers:

How they got into ethical non-monogamy, learning from roadblocks, forgiving yourself, and how exploring new things with your partner builds a foundation of trust. (00:47)

How the lifestyle has affected his relationship with himself and how it has increased his confidence. (13:24)

Getting hard: what he’s learned about getting and staying hard in sexual situations. (15:30)

The girls revisit the advice they would give themselves when starting consensual non monogamy, and M talks about why he wouldn’t give himself any advice at all. (27:05)

DP (Double Penetration): Is it considered DP if it’s not two human dicks? Elle shares her New Years intentions progress with anal and double penetration, and M shares his insights and what’s so hot about being one of the men involved in DP.  (32:58)

Compersion: what it is, when M and Elle first experienced it together, how trust is achieved, and how compersion and jealousy can exist simultaneously. (39:29)

Deep throating: to gag or not to gag? Gag reflexes, power play, and whether it’s necessary to deep throat to give a good blow job. (54:49)

M’s deepest takeaways of his experience of being a man in the lifestyle. (1:02:10)

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