We Can Do Hard Things The Closure Myth: How Do We Really Move On? (Best Of)
Aug 24, 2025
Dive into the complexities of moving on from heartbreak! The hosts unravel the myth of closure, emphasizing it's a personal journey rather than a destination. Explore the unique concept of 'magical pessimism' and how creative souls often resist seeking closure. They also share humorous anecdotes about everyday chaos and community support, while reflecting on how our environments can deeply affect our emotional healing. Plus, hear insights on navigating family dynamics and the challenges of finding your true place in the world.
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Closure Is A Decision You Give Yourself
- Closure often isn't external information but a personal decision to carry the loss differently.
- Glennon argues seeking closure from others usually meets the need for connection, not true resolution.
Listener Question About Closure Sparks Discussion
- Marlena calls asking what closure is after losing someone and watching true crime documentaries.
- Her question sparks the hosts' wide discussion about ambiguous loss and closure.
Need For Closure Drives Black‑and‑White Choices
- High need for closure seeks definitive answers and stops taking new information.
- That need links to self-sabotage because people prefer a painful 'no' over an uncertain 'maybe'.