A Life of Greatness Sarah's Thoughts: The Weight Of Small Lies
Nov 6, 2025
Delve into the everyday small lies we tell and discover how they silently chip away at trust and authenticity. Explore why we often say we’re fine when we’re not, and how these polite untruths can erode our connections. Learn about the impact of downplaying promises and the cumulative weight of these tiny deceptions. Sarah offers insights on practicing gentler honesty, allowing for truthful yet kind responses that foster deeper relationships. Uncover how clearing these small lies can lead to newfound relief and closeness.
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Small Lies Accumulate Into A Big Cost
- Small lies feel harmless but accumulate and erode trust over time.
- They chip away at authenticity and make relationships less reliable.
The Cost Of Saying 'I'm Fine'
- Sarah describes saying "I'm fine" when actually tired, anxious, or grieving to avoid burdening others.
- She warns this habit teaches you that your real experience is inconvenient and slowly silences you.
Promises Become Reliability Signals
- She gives the example of promising you'll arrive in five minutes while being twenty away.
- Repeating this makes others see you as unreliable and makes you internalize that unreliability.
