Securely Attached Q&A: What are appropriate consequences when my child doesn't listen?
Sep 28, 2023
Child development experts Dr. Rebecca Hershberg and Dr. Emily Upshur discuss appropriate consequences for children who don't listen, emphasizing the importance of clear messaging and understanding developmental differences. They explore the concept of developmentally appropriate habits and responsibilities, the motivations of five-year-old children, and the role of reflective functioning in parenting. The use of consequences is reframed, prioritizing understanding and curiosity over punishment.
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Introduction
00:00 • 3min
Appropriate Consequences for a Child Who Doesn't Listen
03:26 • 5min
Developing Developmentally Appropriate Habits and Responsibilities
08:23 • 9min
Understanding the Development and Motivations of a Five-Year-Old Child
17:44 • 5min
Modeling Reflective Functioning and Shifting Parenting Orientation
22:34 • 4min