Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel Esther Calling - A Secret I Can't Even Tell My Therapist
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Sep 8, 2025 A woman reflects on her turbulent nine-year marriage as she prepares to secretly meet her ex-partner. She grapples with conflicting feelings, torn between knowing the relationship was unhealthy and still longing for connection. The conversation dives into emotional turmoil, exploring the complexities of love and conflict. Themes of self-identity and dependency emerge, as well as the impact of hidden conflicts on growth. Ultimately, the discussion emphasizes the journey of self-awareness and the delicate dance between personal autonomy and relationship dynamics.
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Split Between Head And Heart
- She describes feeling split between a logical part that knows the relationship was unhealthy and an emotional part that still longs for her ex.
- They divorced two years ago after nine years together and she is preparing to see him again for a weekend.
Breakup Letter Tested On Him
- She read a breakup letter her therapist had her write and read it to her ex to see his reaction.
- He listened, apologized, and acknowledged the
Two Selves Within A Partner
- She had seen two sides of him: the loving partner and a combative