How LONG does sex last ON AVERAGE? (YouTube Replay)
Jun 2, 2025
What’s the average length of sex? This discussion reveals surprising data from 500 couples, shattering common misconceptions. The focus shifts to the gap between expectations and reality in sexual experiences. Communication about desires and expectations takes center stage, highlighting its importance in relationships. Laughs, insights, and a touch of science make this conversation both enlightening and entertaining!
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Average Intercourse Duration
The average length of penetrative intercourse, measured from penetration to ejaculation, is around 5.7 minutes globally.
This is much shorter than commonly believed or expected in society today.
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Communicate for Sexual Satisfaction
Communicate openly with your partner about expectations and enjoyment in sexual relationships.
Understanding and honoring each other's desires leads to more fulfilling sex lives.
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Men’s Perceptions vs Reality
Men generally estimate the ideal penetrative intercourse length to be about 16 minutes.
However, they believe most men actually last only around 9 minutes, showing a perception gap.
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#sexualhealth #sexualwellness
Currently, there's too much glorification on what sex should look like, placing a lot of value (sometimes too much value) on how long it should last. But what’s normal?! In this video, we take a look at real data regarding how long sex really lasts from 500 couples all around the world!
Watch this video of me reacting to Sex and The City to learn about PREMATURE EJACULATION!
https://youtu.be/1WPczkHNdwU
Sources:
A Five‐nation Survey to Assess the Distribution of the Intravaginal Ejaculatory Latency Time among the General Male Population: https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/full/10.1111/j.1743-6109.2009.01392.x?casa_token=4vwrMDhP-KwAAAAA%3Al4Gv4-DvSkCGDfVRW1N8Cd6jswYtKFd_DMZK26Eon6tHqZMG4BPmB0_JMXvh1rIY7ZJWh_1rm7kAq8d8TQ
How long does sex last?: https://saucydates.com/how-long-does-sex-last/
Find a Certified Sex Therapist: https://www.aasect.org/referral-directory
Resources used:
Turkey Map: https://www.vanguardngr.com/2021/01/turkey-hits-twitter-pinterest-with-advertising-bans-over-failure-to-appoint-local-representative/
Britain Map: http://www.maps-of-britain.co.uk/large-political-britain-map.html
Couple looking at the sun Video: https://www.pexels.com/video/a-couple-sitting-on-the-bed-looking-at-the-city-view-by-the-window-4775026/
DISCLAIMER: This video is purely educational and does not constitute medical advice. The content of this video is my personal opinion and not that of my employer(s). Use of this information is at your own risk. Rena Malik, M.D. will not assume any liability for any direct or indirect losses or damages that may result from the use of the information contained in this video including but not limited to economic loss, injury, illness, or death.