Calm Parenting Podcast 3 Common Situations In Which You Can “Give In” & Still Be A Good Parent #531
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Oct 29, 2025 Explore the delicate balance of parenting as Kirk discusses when it's okay to give in without compromising your principles. Discover three real-life scenarios where strategic flexibility can foster stronger relationships. Learn about the wisdom of letting go after weekend procrastination and how sometimes, giving a little mercy can maintain peace with teens. Kirk emphasizes being firm on critical rules while allowing leniency on minor issues, helping parents navigate those gray areas with confidence.
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Read The Moment Before Enforcing
- Slow your world down and read the moment before enforcing a consequence.
- Wait until your child is rested to address missed commitments so discipline teaches, not punishes.
Consistency Versus Rigidness
- Consistency matters, but it doesn't require rigid enforcement every single time.
- Adjusting your promise when facts change is mature, not dishonest.
Choose Calm Follow-Through
- Decide ahead whether you'll follow through calmly or accept the cost of a meltdown.
- If you follow through, use an even, matter-of-tone and avoid joining the drama.