Conversation with Chip Conley — Reframing Aging, Mid-Life Chrysalis, and Maintaining a Growth Mindset
Oct 19, 2023
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Chip Conley, founder and CEO of Modern Elder Academy, talks about reframing aging, mid-life chrysalis, and maintaining a growth mindset. They discuss solutions to the agist workforce, bankruptcy and second chances, moderation on social media, creating a new aging narrative, turning life lessons into wisdom, similarities and challenges in mid-life, and reflections on transitory phases.
Midlife should be seen as a chrysalis for personal growth, rather than a crisis.
Leveraging wisdom in the workplace through intergenerational collaborations and mentoring is crucial.
Shifting society's mindset to value qualities beyond physical appearance can combat ageism and promote fulfillment.
Deep dives
Importance of reframing the concept of aging
The founder of Modern Elder Academy discusses the need to reframe the concept of aging and its importance in midlife. He emphasizes that midlife should be seen as a chrysalis, a period of transformation and personal growth, rather than a crisis. By embracing a growth mindset, gaining clarity on personal strengths, and becoming a mentor, individuals can navigate this stage of life with purpose and fulfillment.
The value of wisdom and intergenerational collaboration in the workplace
The guest speaker explains how wisdom can be leveraged in the workplace, particularly in intergenerational collaborations. He encourages older employees to embrace their role as mentors and share their wisdom with younger colleagues. He also emphasizes the importance of diversity in relationships, both personally and professionally, to broaden perspectives and foster learning.
The impact of societal focus on physical appearance and ageism
The podcast guest highlights the negative impact of society's obsession with physical appearance and the anti-aging industry. He argues that there is a need for a shift in cultural mindset to value wisdom and other qualities beyond physical attributes. By embracing the different stages of life and focusing on emotional intelligence, curiosity, and personal growth, individuals can combat ageism and find greater fulfillment.
Advice for young adults
The guest speaker shares advice for young adults, encouraging them not to take things too personally and to embrace the learning process. He emphasizes the importance of anticipating and addressing regret by taking action and pursuing personal growth. Additionally, he highlights the value of diverse relationships and the impact of leaning into the role of a mentor.
Reflection on the evolving relationship with children
The podcast host shares a personal reflection on the changing dynamics of his relationship with his children as they grow older. He highlights the bittersweet nature of experiencing their independence and the need for parents to cherish the moments of connection and affection while they last.
Chip Conley,the founder and CEO of Modern Elder Academy and the former head of global hospitality and strategy at Airbnb, joins Scott to discuss solutions to the agist workforce, thinking of a mid-life crisis as a chrysalis, and the things to consider as you build your career path.
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