Not For Everyone 133. Hot Not Bothered Summer: Red Flags Worth Staying For (Politics? Dating History? Kinks?)
Jul 31, 2025
Delve into the intriguing world of dating as the hosts dissect what constitutes a true red flag. They challenge conventional wisdom around serious relationships and political beliefs, emphasizing that not every warning signal means disaster. With humor, they navigate the complexities of boundaries and personal branding in the dating scene. Plus, insightful discussions on intimacy preferences and social media's impact on love make this chat relatable and eye-opening. Join them in exploring when to stay a little longer in your romantic adventures!
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Confusing Relationship Labels
- Jess and Caroline share personal stories about confusing and clarifying relationship labels like dating, exclusive, and boyfriend.
- They reveal how immature expectations complicated these terms before meeting reasonable partners who simplified it.
Address Commitment Fears Directly
- Discuss any insecurity or fear about relationship commitment openly and ask for the root cause.
- See if your partner can shift perspectives and reflect; if not, consider it a red flag.
Experience Isn’t Enough
- Experience alone doesn’t make someone better in relationships; reflection and growth matter more.
- Being unable to change previously held beliefs, especially about relationships, is a serious red flag.