Do you really know? Why do we kiss under the mistletoe?
Oct 24, 2025
Discover the enchanting history of mistletoe, a plant steeped in symbolism for love and healing. Uncover a fascinating Norse myth that links mistletoe to romantic vows. Learn how this charming tradition spread across Europe and America, evolving into the kissing customs we know today. Delve into quirky rules surrounding mistletoe kisses, like the berry-removal ritual. In just a few minutes, unravel the mystery behind this festive practice and impress your friends with newfound knowledge!
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Mistletoe's Ancient Symbolism
- Mistletoe has long cultural meanings linking it to love, fertility and healing across cultures.
- The Norse myth of Frigg and Balder reframed mistletoe as a symbol of love after Balder's death.
The Norse Story Behind Kissing
- Norse myth says Frigg forgot to ask mistletoe to vow not to harm her son Balder.
- Loki used mistletoe to kill Balder, and Frigg then declared it a love symbol and planted kisses on those beneath it.
How Mistletoe Became A Christmas Kiss
- By the 18th century mistletoe entered Christmas customs and literature, linking it to kissing.
- References in an 1784 song, Dickens and Washington Irving helped spread the kissing tradition.
