Activist and founder of Girls Who Code, Reshma Saujani, shares her journey of struggling to achieve her goal of motherhood, embracing vulnerability, and allowing herself to feel emotions. She discusses breaking the facade of always being in control, the emotional rollercoaster of unexpected pregnancy and loss, and the transformative power of opening up about emotional pain.
Reshma Sojani shares her struggle with fertility, challenging societal norms and promoting open conversations about pregnancy loss.
Reshma exemplifies the balance between public strength and private vulnerability, encouraging emotional expression in professional settings.
Deep dives
Reshma's Struggle with Fertility
Reshma Sojani, founder of Girls Who Code, shares her candid story of struggling with fertility. Despite her excitement at discovering her pregnancy, she faced heartbreak when the doctor revealed no heartbeat during an ultrasound. Reshma's experience challenges the idealized depiction of pregnancy and highlights the silence around pregnancy loss in society.
Public vs. Private Grief
Reshma exemplifies the struggle between public strength and private pain. She grapples with maintaining a stoic exterior in professional settings while dealing with profound grief internally. By sharing her vulnerability with her team, Reshma breaks the silence surrounding miscarriage and creates space for emotional expression in the workplace.
Embracing Vulnerability and Grief
Reshma's journey reflects a shift towards embracing vulnerability and openness about grief. She learns the importance of processing emotions and seeking support, promoting a culture of empathy and compassion. By allowing herself to feel and express her pain, Reshma experiences a transformative release and connection with others.
Reshma Saujani, activist and founder of Girls Who Code and Moms First, prides herself on being in control. She’s always been the one to say “I got this.” But after years of struggling to achieve her lifelong goal of being a mother, the weight of powering through the pain gets to be too much. In this week’s story, Reshma learns that instead of white knuckling through life’s unexpected changes, she can allow herself the time and space to properly feel them.
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